Nothing has been heard until it has been said several times

The hearing and understanding of a message—particular a disruptive or paradigm-shifting one—usually only happens when the message has been communicated so many times that the communicator begins to wonder if it will ever be understood.

Experience had taught me that nothing was heard until it had been said several times. Only when I heard my own words echoed or paraphrased back to me by subordinates as essential “truths” did I know they had been fully received.[1]


#communication

See also:


  1. Team of Teams – McChrystal, et al. (2015), ch. 11, § “Chess Master To Gardener: The Leaders We Now Need.” ↩︎